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This is the second piece in a new series in which Ravishly editor Katie Tandy explores the psychology behind a fetish, and writer Jetta Rae DoubleCakes crafts a piece of erotic fiction that reveals how this manifests in a sexual encounter. Color Me Kinky refers to the hanky code, a system in which certain colors connote one's sexual interests and proclivities in public spaces. Last week we talked foot fetish coral and now we're diving into Mommy Play mint green.
Stay tuned for more sensational smut next week. While some of us have what feels like an inherently vagina- and penis-shriveling reaction to the word "Mommy" when bandied about while rolling around in the sheets, this is—hurray for diverse sexual interests! First thing's first, there are a whole host of monikers that accompany Mommy Play, including paraphilic infantalism, autonepiophilia and adult baby syndrome.
While Mommy Play manifests itself as a whole kinky kaleidoscope of activities and accouterments, which we'll explore in just a minute, fret you not; it basically boils down to age-play in which someone actively regresses to an infant-like state. Usually it's sexual in nature, but often times, coming isn't part of the scenario.
And in some cases, the whole thrust of the exchange is just to be tended to and nurtured; to feel safe and decidedly blissed out. Diaper-clad and mewling, there's nothing to worry about but your next feeding. There's mommy fetish responsibility, just that sweet swishing sound of the wet cloth swaddling your legs and the gummy pleasure of the pacifier plunged between your lips. Before diving into more of the psychology, I want to point out two oft-misunderstood elements of Mommy Play.
Many believe that if one wants to be they just might want mommy fetish be withand this is simply not the case. Infantilism is whole other can of worms that rarely touches upon pedophilia. They fetishize being taken care of, being tenderly loved or cruelly spanked; they want the life of a baby, not to touch one themselves.
The second, which was my initial theory to be honest, is that this must have some latent incestuous elements. But that doesn't seem to be part and parcel of this paraphilia either. They want a Mommy, an archetypal Mommy, to come and wipe their bottom. The fetishes that infantilism does intersect withhowever, are sado-masochism per all the potential spanking, bed-wetting, possible humiliation elements, as well as transvestism where some cross-dress as the opposite sex—often called "sissy-baby syndrome" in addition to urophilia loving urinecoprophilia good old fashioned defecation and lactophilia bring on the breast milk.
The first mommy fetish coining of this phenomenon was by—who else? These days, there are a host of different theories as to why certain people are drawn to this of kind role-playing, mommy fetish like so many things in life—damn you God! One prevailing notion is that people's "lovemaps" have gone awry.
Sexologist John Money first used this term in in a paper entitled, Pairbonding and Limerence which basically means an involuntary infatuation with someone. Money defines a lovemap as "a developmental representation or template in the mind and in the brain depicting the idealized lover and the idealized program of sexual and erotic activity projected in imagery or actually engaged in with that lover.
Basically it's a two-fold dream-team that couples together the hottest sexual shit you can imagine with the hottest partner you can imagine. Money, and current psychologists, still wrestle with the notion that wanting to temporarily renounce one's adult agency in the world to be coddled like a baby—or coddle a grown-ass human as a baby—is an example of a lovemap mommy fetish no longer navigated by the Northern Star. Which is to say, it's a little off.
And of course, the debate still rages whether any of the "known" kinds of paraphilias or "atypical sexual desires" should be considered an affliction or listed in diagnostic manuals, such as the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders DSM or the International Classification of Diseases. In the world of infantilism you will see everything from soiled diapers the material of which obviously range depending on your taste from cloth to disposable or rubber to wet-nursing sometimes simulatedcrawling on the floor, being fed, being bathed, drinking from bottles, and of course being spanked and perhaps humiliated in the process.
There is a tremendous amount of overlap with diaper fetishists—though these two paraphilias are not synonymous—who enjoy having regular intercourse just wearing a diaper. As for those coddling man-sized babies, you will find their partners acting just as a good mother should: wiping faces, bottoms, heating up warm milk, poking a nipple into a hungry mouth, swaddling their dearest darling in a nice clean white diaper, or perhaps punishing a very naughty boy with swift strikes on their bottom draped over their knee.
Please tell me, Pipsqueak. I love you just the way you are. With tiny wrists I can tie tight, and ticklish feet that kick the sheets off the bed. It is not necessary to have my hips for me to tie you to the ottoman and rest my feet on your face while I watch my soaps. You do not need my shoulders to have your mouth washed out with cock. I was going to let you decide whether or not I let her come.
I even picked out the stockings you like so much for tonight, too. I went up two butt plug sizes this week. Stephanie told me that my chastity belt was silly and that only silly girls let their moms take away their orgasms I wanted her to see how much fun it is. How about—how about I let you have dessert first, just this once, just to show you how happy and in love with you I am?
He finally did it. He bent me over that desk, in full view of the whole office, and mommy fetish fucked the shit out of my pussy. I bet some of him is still in there. I wonder if you could taste it. The slut is so hungry. Please, Mommy. Please let your slut taste you. Life is hard, but it's better when you're not alone.
Katie Tandy. But alright already, enough of the science crap. Let's get to the good bits shall we? And now: the erotic fiction. Do you want me to pull out your plug? Your tummy? Will you untie me so I can put them in the microwave? Can you smell how wet I am, seeing you so wound up? I want—I want—please? I raised you better. Feed the slut. I love you. I love you so much. If you like this article, please share it! Your clicks keep us alive! Articles You'll Love. Jess: Sexologist.Mommy fetish
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