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I love my husband of 20 years, but our sexual differences are putting a strain on our marriage. Ten years ago, he asked me to talk dirty to him about having sex with other men. It has progressed to him wanting to be a cuckold. I only want to be with him, but he presses the issue by verbalizing cuckold situations during sex. This makes me close my eyes and shut down. By the time he is done, I have no desire to orgasm because I no longer feel attractive. Worse, I feel like I am not enough for him. The only way he can get off is to talk about, think about, or cuckolding fantasy me talk about having sex with other men.
It makes me feel worthless as a sex partner—which is crazy, because I am attractive and open to a great deal of things toys, games, dressing up, striptease, et cetera. I long for him to touch me, kiss me, and look at me the way he used to.
He is a good father and a good provider, and I love him. But this matter is crushing my self-esteem. She winds up loving it; she says she regrets waiting so long; and husband lives happily ever after in cuckolded bliss. Reading so many cuckolding success stories—many likely fictitious—has left your cuckolding fantasy convinced that if he just keeps at it, one day his wife will want to try it.
Some wives do try it and like it.
Cuckenstein created a monster. He is free to think about whatever he wants to during sex—we all are—but he has to keep his cuckolding fantasies to himself. Wrap up the convo by informing him that from now on, your sex sessions end the moment the subject of you sleeping with other men is raised. No more closing your eyes and waiting for him to finish. And what kind cuckolding fantasy asshole can finish under those circumstances?
If he brings up other men, EFFED, get off the bed, get out of the bedroom, and go to the kitchen and have some ice cream. Your husband needs to find a new erotic script that works for you both. The incentive for him: since you are open to many things—toys, games, dressing up, striptease—a fantasy scenario that turns you on is likely to become a reality scenario pretty quickly. I am a year-old married straight male.
I have a lot of confusion regarding my sexual orientation and gender identity, and I am in therapy. My question for you is about my current self-pleasuring routine. Some are about cuckolding and femdom; some are about being brainwashed into sucking cock. It is all done in a really amateurish and hopefully ineffective way. Am I destroying my brain here? They sound like a harmless way for an otherwise healthy, stable straight guy to fantasize about ceding his power and privilege to people the culture taught cuckolding fantasy to regard as weak and inferior, i.
I always told myself that I would forgive my husband if he cheated on me. Well, he had an affair for eight months. He also blew through our savings and racked up considerable credit-card debt. The college fund we started for our two children is gone.
He spent all of the money on fancy dinners, expensive gifts, and incredible vacations for his girlfriend.
My husband ended the affair and wants desperately to save our marriage. Your husband betrayed you sexually and financially. He stole from you. He stole from his own children. Now, I can understand thinking with your dick because I have a dickand we can all imagine a circumstance in which we might succumb to temptation because we all experience temptation.
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It was completely humiliating for me. I am a husband of a wife who has tried it She wasn't forced and I did not read blogs before it happened. Some people are mature enough to make it work. Sex is an act. It is usually the trust and deceit that destroys a marriage. In saying that. If you are opposed to it, fine don't ever do it. Your husband has opened up to you and trusted you with something that he probably has told nobody else.
Of anyone, you are and should be the one he can be honest with. See this is the mainstream hypocrisy. IN my relationship, I can be honest and truthful about everything with my wife Not everything we explore, but we both trust each other not to judge. Why not listen to him and keep it a fantasy? You say you are ok with dressing up, games, etc. Why not integrate his fantasy with what you are willing to do? You can make it clear that it is to remain a fantasy, but don't shut him out. This is a fallacy to shun cuckolding in general. You are beautiful to him and he physiologically gets something from seeing you desirable in the eyes of other cuckolding fantasy.
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